“Your evolution is a wonder to behold,” she texted me.
Her message lit up my phone, and the energy behind it hit me like a freight train.
I wrote her back, and as my fingers moved across the screen, my mind finally started to articulate what my heart, body, and soul had already known.
I replied, “I can’t even describe how much I adore you 💚. Your support is unwavering, and the energy you hold around truly supporting others is such a gift.”
The moment I hit send, it was like fireworks—my mind caught up with what the rest of me had already received.
She often texts me out of the blue, sharing how she experiences me or offering a compliment. But her words always land differently. There’s something about her that reaches deeper into my heart and soul—far deeper than compliments from clients, friends, or family. Her words leave a real imprint, one I can feel in every cell of my body.
I’d noticed it before, but I’d never lingered long enough to ask why it felt different. Tonight was different. I’d been sitting in the frequency of curiosity, holding the question of why with an open heart and full trust. And in that openness, her message arrived.
And suddenly, I understood:
She was never trying to get anything from me. Not a single time.
She connected with me simply because she was curious about who I am—not because she wanted me to teach her something, fix something, or give her anything. She wasn’t placing me on a pedestal. She wasn’t looking for answers to check a box. She was curious in a way that opened her to a new way of experiencing the world.
She wanted to understand me so she could understand what moved her. She met me as an energetic equal—fully honoring both my energy and her own. We were never in a dynamic of “better” or “less than”—just two different expressions of the same human experience.
She wasn’t trying to get anything from me.
She was simply trying to experience me.
That’s why her compliments sank so deeply.
Have you ever received that kind of connection?
Do you know what it feels like?
Do you understand how rare and sacred it is?
This is the true gift of this kind of connection:
There is no judgment.
If she judged me, it would limit her experience of me—so she doesn’t.
It’s full acceptance. Not agreement with everything I am, but acceptance of the truth of my experience. Someone who comes to experience you rather than take from you holds a purity that feels like a direct expression of God. They allow you to be whole—messy, clear, human—without shrinking or shaping yourself.
Her compliments landed differently because she was simply experiencing me. And in noticing her own shifts through that experience, she allowed me to open myself fully in return.
As I sat with this realization, something cracked open inside me. If she held no judgment of me, then any restriction I felt in our connection wasn’t coming from her. It was mine—my own discomfort with myself, my own self-judgment reflecting back to me.
And in that moment, I finally understood the true power of energetics—and found the language for what I’ve been doing in my work.
I show up for clients with no agenda, simply wanting to experience them. And because I’m not trying to take anything from them, they can bring all of themselves. This allows them to feel their own self-judgment, rewrite it, and expand into more of who they are.
I meet them as equals. Different, but equal.
I share my frequency through mindset work, nervous system support, and energetic presence—verbally, behaviorally, energetically.
Yet until now, I’ve valued the cognitive work more than the energetic work. And because of that, there’s been an incongruence in my field—something everyone can feel. Energetics is what I’m most passionate about, yet even when I’m vulnerable, I’ve still been protecting my energy body. Not fully open. Not fully trusting.
The next step in my evolution is to show up just as I have been—but with my energy body fully open.
As I write this, I can feel God activated inside me.