This is my truth, it does not need to be yours.
My truth is that we are a soul here having a human experience. I believe that a large part of why we are here having a human experience is to challenge ourselves with experiences that promote growth for our soul. I believe that while we were at the light, before starting our human experience, there are certain things that we agreed to experience to promote this soul growth.
I also believe that we came into this human experience with other souls, almost like a pod of people, to help support us or play roles for us to help us with our goals of soul growth. For example, you may have identified people who were going to throw unconditional support and love at you to help give you the stability that you needed to challenge yourself in a particular growth area. On the flipside, you may have identified people who would step into your life and challenge you to help promote soul growth in a different way.
I believe that when there is a particular soul growth goal that we put multiple levels of support in place to ensure that we learn and grow. We put individuals in our world who will challenge us and oftentimes also put individuals in our world who will support us at the same time with that same goal. The more we have grown in a particular area, the less support we come in with, mostly because we don’t need it. For example, if you are trying to work on self-worth, then you may have people in the work setting, in your family, in your friend circle, who challenge you on self-worth…… maybe challenge is the wrong word, maybe it’s really more of pushing you. You likely at the same time have support from loved ones, friends or family, who support your mission of self-worth and provide positive feedback and affirmations. The more lives that you have lived in, the more growth you have made and the more you will challenge yourself to have less support from friends and family. And then eventually, you will challenge yourself to have almost no support and possibly even have your loved ones be the ones who challenge you.
The next time you find yourself in a situation where you are being challenged, consider the fact that you may have asked for an experience like this to help you grow. I know that it’s hard at the moment, however I challenge you to try. Zoom out a bit, and rather than being upset with the person for the challenge, you may want to ask yourself why YOU asked for this, what did YOU want to learn. Did you agree to this? Better yet, did you ask for this?
